Top 10 Qualities Men Have That Drive Women Crazy
Yes, my dear, I can agree! Understanding what women want in a man can be a very complicated undertaking. One time she is complaining about a small feature of your character, only later to remain positively crazy about it! We are difficult to understand. However, dear men, I have some good news for you! There are certain factors which drive most women crazy. I’m going to reveal these qualities to help you uncover the mystery that is the unexplained female mind.
1. Manliness
No matter how much today’s culture, fashion, and habits blur the definition of what it means to be a man, I can assure you women love your masculine side, even if you happen to wear skinny jeans and want an overpriced haircut. The same as when you are usually attracted to a woman’s feminine side, women love when you think, feel, and act like a man. Don’t shy away from your male interests. If you can help her to repair her bike or move a heavy wardrobe she will typically be attracted to your brute strength, which is a huge point for you!
2. Confidence
A man doesn’t have to be the most handsome in the world, but if he carries himself with certainty and conviction, openly expresses his opinion and, in general, is not afraid of a beautiful woman, it’s very attractive. Never think that any woman is out of your league, since it will show in your insecure behavior. Have your own opinion and don’t be afraid to show it, even with the most attractive woman. Women like challenges and every woman with healthy self-esteem will get bored of a man who follows her opinions too eagerly.
3. Decisiveness
As females, we already have many complexities to make up in our minds. It’s not that we want to annoy you; it’s that our minds are changing quickly! In one hour we can be happy about an idea, only later to completely change our attitude about the same idea. Many females, including myself, are doing very well in our lives. Yet, when it comes to making a simple, unimportant choice we cannot finalize our decision! Always have a backup plan, such as what to do and where to take us. We love a man who can decide whenever we cannot decide for ourselves. Next time, when a woman asks you what to do or where to go, don’t be afraid to take the initiative.
4. Listening
Women are often, let’s say, talkative creatures. I can agree that it might be a bit annoying to listen all the time to a detailed description of our emotional states, a fresh update of what we bought on sale, or our opinion about another woman nearby. I notice that many men develop the ability to switch on listening from their daily routines. If you want to impress a woman show her that you can listen to her! Follow the conversation and demonstrate that you concentrate on what she is saying. Maintain complete eye contact with her while she speaks. Forget about your phone!
5. Muscles
For some reason, men fall into the preconceived notion that woman love men who spend hours working out at the gym and wind up looking like over inflated balloons. That’s not true in most cases. We want you to look healthy, sporty, and strong. However, it’s much better when you gain these muscles from maintaining a healthy lifestyle from running, climbing, sailing, or any passion related to sport. Some sweat after an outdoor activity is the lovely thing possible!
6. Desire
Who wouldn’t feel flattered if another person felt attractive enough with them? If you think the woman you are dating is hot, don’t feel shy to express it! Women adore it when men confidently display their love side. Show her your desire! Grab her leg or ass when nobody sees, or whisper how hot her breasts look in her tight fitting blouse. If you speak with confidence, in a private manner and with respect, we will love it! Even at the beginning of dating you can still express your desire by inadvertently touching her or sweetly kissing her lips. Otherwise, she may ask herself, “Does he think I’m ugly or fat?”
7. Assertiveness
Does it make you wonder how a badly written book like 50 Shades of Grey became so popular? Why do bored housewives suddenly sneak reading mesmerizing paragraphs about violent love-making in between their household duties? Most women like to be a bit dominated in bed! I’m not telling you to suddenly wear leather pants and go out and buy a whip, but giving confident commands in bed or being more assertive about what she should do is definitely hot! A woman wants to know that her man is physically attracted to her and attraction entails leadership. This means that you should take the lead during love-making.
8. Passion
On one hand, we love when men spend time with us, are attentive, and have patience to wait on us, but this routine can get tiresome and dull. We would never openly admit it, but we like to feel that our man is very busy, but can put aside his routine and make us a priority in his schedule. Consequently, his time is more valuable to us. Even if you are madly attracted to a woman, make sure that you keep yourself busy with your own passions and work. A man who is sitting on the couch and watching football or playing video games can be cute, but only for a day or two.
9. Attention
I know that it’s easy to get confused with daily appointments and life events, but try to keep track of what’s important for your relationship. I’m not just talking about your anniversary or her birthday, but follow her personal matters and life. If she tells you that she had a significant engagement, remember to ask her how it went. If she had a business meeting earlier in the day, ask her to tell you about it. If she is in school and she had a tough exam, start a conversation about this subject. If you know she’s not feeling well, run a bath for her. Remember to pay attention to her.
10. Humor
I put this topic in the end because it can make or break a relationship. Confidence and a sense of humor are probably the most desired qualities in a man! I once heard, “if you can make her laugh, you can make her fall in love.” There is definitely something to this! Women absolutely LOVE when a man is a little comical and doesn’t take himself so seriously all the time. Humor pulls your woman closer to you and keeps her interested.
Sarah Williams is a freelance writer that is passionate about psychology. After several relationships and a LOT of dates, she shares her dating tips for men on Wingman Magazine . After all, she is just a hopeless romantic trying to figure it all out.
